It’s going to be another Manic Monday around here so I thought I’d just post a pretty picture of Bettie enjoying herself in the sun. It’s not spanking, it’s not bondage, but it is pretty. Enjoy!
Image courtesy of Classsic images at Skin Video.
I’m Gonna Need A GG Spanking
I’m afraid that this week the GG stands for Grumpy Girl. I’ve had a head cold most of the week and it’s made me a very grumpy girl. I had big plans for this week, too. Now the laundry is just going to have to wait…darn.
Seriously, right up until I started sneezing and wheezing, Dan had been promising we’d give the rubber paddle a good tryout soon. Now I’ve got to wait and I was really looking forward to that. I guess my bottom will have to wait to find out just how evil that paddle really is.
In the meantime, I’m playing lots of Zuma, resting, and watching lots of bad tv. Dan’s amazed at the amount of bad tv I can tolerate but when I’m sick, it somehow makes me feel better.
For some reason, Dan thinks nipple pinches make me feel better so I’ve been getting some of those, too. I can’t decide if he’s right or not. It’s not exactly the cure for the common cold, but it does take my mind off my cold for a little bit anyway.
I just took another dose of cold medicine so I’m going to stop making sense soon. It’s probably time for bed anyway. I just wanted to point out that I recently upgraded the software here so if you comment and it doesn’t show up, it’s gone into moderation until I can okay it. If you’ve commented before, it should go right through. I just got tired of all the spam comments I was having to moderate.
I’m afraid that’s about it for now, not much spanking around here. I’ll be well soon though and we’ll be back in action. We better be anyway. I need that spanking in oh so many ways.
It’s All About The Bottom
That’s what the topic this week at Bonnie’s Spanko Brunch is about. Bonnie asks, “Does your bottom play extend beyond spanking?”
It seems the answer for most of us spankos is a definite “Yes!”
I, for one, love all the attention Dan pays to my bottom. He takes every opportunity to caress, pinch, pat, squeeze, and spank my bottom cheeks. He’s always telling me he can’t keep his hands off me, and that’s fine by me.
Even when he’s asleep, he reaches over pats and squeezes me from time to time. Even though I only notice it when I’m not quite asleep, I always find those sleepy caresses quite comforting. If I’m having trouble sleeping, I find it usually helps me get right back to sleep.
Then there’s the extra attention my bottom gets during a spanking; we’ve found butt plugs can add to our play. I enjoy the sensation it adds to a good spanking and Dan swears it keeps me from wiggling too much. I think I tend to be still for a couple of reasons. For one thing, there’s a lot going on down there at that point and I’m concentrating on all the sensations. For another, I’ve found that the act of having Dan insert the plug can put me into a deeper submissive mindset and that tends to make me more compliant and eager to please.
We’ve also tried figging as an added sensation. It can be quite invigorating, if you know what I mean. If you don’t, you should try it sometime. Check out Figging.com if you want to learn more. Suffice it to say, figging definitely adds a whole new component to a good spanking!
Of course, I can’t leave out the after-care my bottom receives when discussing this topic. Dan is always eager to examine his handiwork. He enjoys marks that really stand out like cane marks and crop marks and he’ll often trace their outlines with his fingertips. That sensation is quite sensuous for me. I also love it when he squeezes or pinches my bottom hard while it’s still hot and throbbing from a spanking.
Now that I think about it, I like him to pay attention to my bottom anytime. When we’re at the theater and I have to get up during the movie, I like it if the seats are close enough that I have to squeeze past. Dan always takes the opportunity to give me a little squeeze. That always makes me giggle. Yup, we’re all about the bottom here.
Don’t forget to visit Bonnie to read what other spankos had to say on this one!
Image courtesy of Classsic images at Skin Video.
The Rubber Paddle Has Arrived!
It arrived just in time for the weekend, too! As soon as Dan unwrapped it he just had to give it a try, and since I’d been rather anxious to find out how evil rubber really is, I went right over the arm of the sofa.
Dan likes to give new toys a real tryout which meant my bottom had to be bare. He pulled down my pants and panties and gave me about five good swats with the paddle. That was all I needed to confirm my suspicions; rubber is evil!
Dan approved because he barely had to swing it before he got my attention. It’s heavy and flexible so it gives a good whap with lots of burn. Dan was also impressed with how red my bottom got from so few spanks. Normally he has to work harder than that to get any color, but the rubber paddle left very distinct and very red marks.
All I knew was that the deep burning sensation lasted a few minutes despite some hopping and rubbing on my part. I have to say, I’m impressed! I’m so impressed, I’m wondering just how much spanking I can take with that thing. I guess we’ll just have to wait and see. I’m hoping we’ll get a chance to play with it this weekend, and I’m sure when it’s over I’ll be hopping and rubbing like crazy. I may even throw in a good booty shake.
That may have to be the new greedy bottom spanking scale. Nice toys rate a quick rub, the slightly evil toys rate a good rub and a little dancing, and the really evil toys rate a real dance complete with rubbing, hopping, and wiggling. You know, that might work.
I really need to come up with some way of grading all these toys, I’d sure hate to get them mixed up in my mind and ask for the wrong one sometime. That could be dangerous.
Especially if I forget which ones I’m trying to avoid and get myself in a position where Dan’s threatening to use one of the evil toys. It’s bad enough that I ask for the cane when we’re just playing, I don’t want to get any more confused than that!
Just A Peek Of Cheek
What is it about just showing a little peek of flesh that is so alluring? I know that whenever I’m wearing a pair of panties that shows off that little bit of round bottom cheek, Dan is quick to react. He can’t seem to resist spanking that teasing flesh.
That may be why I *like* that type of panties so much. It’s also why when I’m getting dressed for us to go out somewhere special, I make a point of letting him see which panties I’m wearing. I pick a special pair, then take my time putting my cothes on.
I’m not sure if it does anything for Dan, but I enjoy knowing what little slip of undies I’m wearing under my clothes. The only thing better than knowing I’m barely wearing any panties, is knowing that the part of my bottom peeking out has proof of a recent spanking.
Just yesterday I was wearing a pair of lacy pink panties that showed off quite a bit of cheek and Dan quickly reacted. Later as I went to finish getting ready, I had to stop and glance in the mirror. Just as I’d hoped, that little bit of cheek peeking out had a nice pink blush that almost matched my panties. It was perfect and I left the house grinning to myself. Sometimes I wonder if anyone else notices my secret smile and if they’d be surprised to know what I’m grinning about. Hmmm?
Pretty picture courtesy of Classsic images at Skin Video.
I Want Some Spanking Furniture
I saw this image from the movie “Belt Slipper Rod” from Fetish Flixx, and I was consumed with spanko envy. I want one of those spanking benches!
What is that called? A spanking horse or just bench? Either way, I want one. I think it would help with the spanking symmetry problem we sometimes have.
I’m tempted to try what Am and Dave did with their folding steps after reading both his and her’s posts (on their now discontinued blog so no links to the posts). It was quite inspiring! I have some of those steps and I’ve been giving them the eye since reading those posts of theirs. I even tried bending over them for size. It has possibilities.
I guess I could get out the tools, order some wood, and go to work but it’s been awhile since I’ve tried anything like that. I’d probably end up with a lopsided horse and then drive myself crazy trying to even out the legs. And before you know it, I’d have a footstool. Yup, I better find another solution.
I think I’ll go look at those folding steps again.
Lolly Crop Spanking Toy
This is my newest toy! It’s the Lolly Crop from JT’s Stockroom. Isn’t it pretty? And it’s fun, fun, fun!
The head of the crop is made of silicone and delivers quite a nice little smack. It’s not like other crops that have a devilish sting but not much thud. This crop has some nice thud and it’s concentrated in small areas. The sensations drive me wild. They’re small thuddy smacks that can be landed wherever Dan wants to put them.
I really like it when he lands them on the lowest spot of my cheeks toward the middle. That spot gets missed by some of the other toys and this one can reach that spot just right. Yum!
Dan likes the control this crop has. He can land it exactly where and how he wants it to land. That’s important to him. He really enjoyed the ability to spank exactly the same spot over and over. That made me squeal a bit but Dan just thinks that adds to the fun.
He also enjoyed the wiggling that resulted from some fast well-placed spanks. One nice thing is, despite the wiggling he was still able to keep spanking because, unlike some other toys, he didn’t have to be absolutely precise with the smaller and round surface of this toy.
It made for a very enjoyable experience and that round head left some interesting marks. I’ve even got a few round marks that are still a little tender, so it’s not completely harmless.
That’s the latest toy update. I’m waiting anxiously for another new toy Dan ordered recently and I’m hoping it’ll get here soon so I’ll find out if the description was correct. The online descriptions aren’t always enough, I have to feel them for myself. I think that might be another sign of being a greedy bottom. I really need to start that support group!
Bonnie’s Spanko Brunch
Bonnie of My Bottom Smarts had a great brunch question this week.
Please describe your favorite spanking position and why you prefer it. Have you a second, perhaps more exotic, position you would like to introduce?
I responded in her comments as did many others. There are some great responses there so I highly recommend checking it out!